Drop or Not

It's Not That Your Child Won't.
Sometimes They Truly Can't.

This 5-minute decision framework helps you know whether to keep an expectation, adapt it, or let it go - so you can stop guessing, reduce power struggles, and support your kid's success without lowering your standards.

Included in this free guide...

Low Demand Flow Chart

The Drop or Not flow chart is designed to help you decide whether to move forward with an ask or drop it completely.

The FRAME System

What you see depends on the FRAME you choose. Are you really seeing defiance, or is this a kid saying 'too hard'?

Don't Let Them Overflow

If you identify that a demand is pushing your child beyond their window of tolerance, the next step is to adjust the ask or drop the demand all together. 

What if you had a simple way to decide whether a demand should stay, change, or go?

That's exactly what the Drop or Not Framework helps you do.

Inside this free guide, you'll learn how to:

  • Quickly identify when a demand is appropriate-and when it's simply too much for your child in that moment.
  • Tell the difference between "won't" and "can't" without second-guessing yourself.
  • Decide whether to keep, adapt, or drop an expectation with confidence.
  • Reduce unnecessary power struggles while still supporting your child's growth
  • Stop carrying the guilt of wondering whether you're being too strict or too permissive.

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