The Low Demand Parenting Course
Next Community Cohort starts September 12, 2025.
Hi, my friend.
If you are overwhelmed, lost, lonely, or struggling, you're in the right place.
It's time to get unstuck and activate your family's thriving.
This course is for both caregivers and professionals who work with families. The training will include custom features for each cohort, even as we learn the method together.
I'm a...
You've tried everything... and it's still not working.

You’ve dropped demands.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve poured every ounce of yourself into your child — and still the aggression, the burnout, the daily chaos continues.
THIS IS ME.
You're not just
EXHAUSTED.
You're
SCARED.
Scared your child is falling through the cracks. Scared you're messing everything up. Scared it's too late to heal the damage - to your kid, to their siblings, to you.
- Maybe school was a disaster.
- Maybe homeschooling is too.
- Maybe the sibling trauma is real, and the chaos feels intense.
- And maybe no one in your life truly gets it.
But you don’t want to just survive this.
You want real peace.
Real joy.
Radical acceptance.
And a parenting path that actually honors your one wild and precious life, too.
HEAR FROM REAL PARENTS WHO'VE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES:
“I am not exaggerating when I say that Amanda's course really changed my family's life.
We were already implementing a low-demand lifestyle after reading her excellent book, but the chance to go deeper with Amanda herself has helped us truly understand and connect with the why of all the changes we are making. And it has made SUCH a difference for all of us in terms of prioritizing trust and connection and focusing on healing our nervous systems.”
- Julie
What you're really seeking...
1. A peaceful home --
where laughter flows as freely as conversation, a sanctuary of safety for every member of the family
2. Restored trust --
real practices to heal the bond between you and your kid, no matter how old they are or how much has happened between you
3. Connection to community --
a place where people just get it, where you don't have to explain yourself, where you are safe and seen.
TELL ME MORE.
WHAT IF ONE STEP COULD TRANSFORM EVERYTHING?
“My daughter was in an almost constant meltdown, with small glimpses of regulation. She was violent and abusive to her brother and to us – it was an incredibly rough time.
Fast forward to now, just a handful of months later of truly implementing Amanda’s Low Demand Parenting and violence is WAY down, sleep has become accessible and we have been able to start homeschooling. It has been a complete 180 turnaround.
Working with Amanda has been a transformative, life-giving experience.”
— Rachel, mother of two

That’s what we do inside this course.
It's time to move from surviving to thriving, no matter what parenting throws your way. Not by fixing your child, but by releasing the pressure, healing your nervous system, and rediscovering what really matters.

LOW DEMAND PARENTING
The revolutionary course to move from theory into daily practice — with structure, support, and spaciousness.
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Here's How We'll Get There - Together:

PRE-COURSE MATERIALS
Learn the Fundamentals
You’ll learn how to:
Calm The Nervous System:
→ Understand the “gas and brakes” of stress and regulation — and why it changes everything.
Decode Behavior:
→ Read your child’s cues with confidence. What looks like defiance might be pure overwhelm.
Embrace Coregulation:
→ Respond with clarity and calm during tough moments (no scripts required).
Spot Healthy v. Toxic Stress:
→ Learn how to tell when your child is stretching vs. when they’re truly overloaded.
Practice Inclusive Parenting:
→Explore how low demand parenting intersects with race, class, privilege, and access—and how to raise kids who use their voice for good.
MODULES 1, 2 & 3
Master the Method
In these robust, interactive modules, I’ll break down each of the steps in my innovative 6-Step Low Demand Method. Then, we’ll create your individualized roadmap to demand drops that actually work for your needs -- and your kids.
You’ll learn how to:
Identify Demands:
→ Master the art of decoding what demands really are.
Differentiate between a Big Drop vs. Tiny Drop:
→ You’ll be surprised to learn the game-changing difference between the two!
Discover Your 'Why':
→ Ground yourself in what truly matters for your family's journey.
Communicate Confidently:
→Unlock the 4 key ways to truly hear your children and learn the magic of Declarative Language for powerful, nuanced connections.
Shift from Reactive to Proactive:
→Discover the secrets of sustainable demand-dropping and how to anticipate drops that will make your days run smoother.
Rekindle Self Care:
→ Identify your unmet needs and begin to remove the frustration and resentment you’ve been struggling against.
MODULE 4
Make Home Safe
In this crucial module, you’ll learn how to shift from conflict to connection using low demand strategies that build trust and cooperation—even with highly demand-avoidant kids. Plus find grounded tools for handling aggression and caring for yourself during and after meltdowns.
You’ll learn how to:
Build True Collaboration:
→ Learn how trust—not pressure—opens the door to real connection and cooperation.
Use Declarative Language:
→ Linda Murphy teaches how to reduce stress and invite engagement by simply changing how you speak.
Create A Crisis Plan:
→ Know exactly what to do when things get unsafe with a simple, family-specific plan.
Prep For Hard Days:
→ Get my two go-to tools: a crisis kit and a post-meltdown ritual to help everyone reset.
Handle the Big Stuff:
→ Guest expert Laura Kerby shows how to recognize early signs of meltdown and respond without escalating.
MODULE 5
Get Un-Stuck
In this module, I’ll bust through the places where people most commonly get stuck. I’ll share practical next steps so that you can avoid derailing your Low Demand progress.
You’ll learn how to:
Unearth Your Sticking Points:
→ Identify the roadblocks and ignite forward momentum with one strategic action step at a time.
Embrace 'Let's Try and See':
→ Adopt a fearless mindset, by taking small, powerful steps towards transformation.
Navigate The Roadblocks:
→ Gain power over potential hurdles, to prep you and your kids for future success!
MODULE 6
Advocate Powerfully
In this empowering module, we’ll connect these big ideas to your real life. Through practical examples, storytelling, and actionable tools, you’ll learn how to live out The Low Demand Method in your family, community, and future.
You’ll learn how to:
Advocate With Confidence:
→ Use battle-tested scripts and strategies for talking to doctors, teachers, and therapists—with power and clarity.
Build Resilience:
→Stay grounded in your values—even when others don’t get it or question your parenting.
Future-Proof Your Parenting:
→Learn how low demand skills prepare your child for life, work, and self-advocacy.
PLUS
References & Resources
This module is packed full of all the course references, worksheets, and tools in one easy-to-access location.
You’ll find:
The Power of Organization: all the essential resources of the course, neatly packed in one dynamic workbook!
Masterful Scripts: that transform any situation with confidence and clarity.
Curated Book Lists: for targeted growth and in-depth learning.
Visual Communication Tools: enhance family connections with printable aids.
Affirmation Magic: infuse your space with encouragement!
What You'll Walk Away With:
A deeper trust in yourself and your kid
You’ll stop second-guessing every decision and start feeling grounded in your own wisdom — even when others don’t understand your path.
Radical acceptance that actually works
Not “anything goes,” but “this is what matters most.” You’ll learn to hold firm boundaries without relying on control or punishment.
The strength to live from your own conviction
You’ll feel clear about your choices, confident in your parenting, and less reactive to judgment from others — including your inner critic.
A feeling of true belonging
No more wondering if you’re the only one struggling this hard. You’ll find community, validation, and solidarity with people walking a similar path.

Meet Your Guide.
Hi, I’m Amanda.
I’m an ordained pastor, Duke grad, low-key woodworker, and former National Trampoline Champion (yep, seriously). I’m also a mama of three amazing kids, a late-diagnosed Autistic adult, and a survivor of parenting PTSD.
For two soul-crushing years, I had no roadmap for parenting my PDA Autistic six-year-old.
I was drowning—and everyone kept handing me the same tired advice:
More boundaries. More consistency. More calm.
Just be firmer. Just be gentler. Just try harder.
None of it worked. And worse, it fed a toxic lie:
If your child is struggling, it’s your fault.
This lie stole my joy and my connection with my kids. So I stopped trying to fix my family and started healing it.
And that’s how The Low Demand Method was born!
Today, hundreds of families are reclaiming peace at home—not by pushing harder, but by dropping demands, practicing radical acceptance, and choosing connection over control.
It’s not perfect. Some days are still so hard.
But the shame spiral is gone. My kids are thriving. I have energy again.
And most importantly—I get to enjoy my wild, beautiful life.
I want that for you, too.
Finally get the full support you need to turn
“get through” to “breakthrough.”
And here’s what truly sets this program apart!

A Doable, Self-Paced Learning Journey
I know how overwhelmed you are. This is ALL DESIGNED to be easy and integrated. Get modules delivered weekly both as videos and in a private podcast feed. Go at your pace for a confident grasp, not a rushed race!

Reality Informed & Expert Supported
Hear my in-depth interviews with experts in Psychology, PDA, Autism, and PTSD/Burnout. These expert interviews bring research-backed depth to the course offering.

Live Q&A Sessions with Amanda
Get time with Amanda LIVE! Let's talk through your burning questions and explore the ways forward that best align with your real life. In FOUR live 90-minute Q&A sessions, you and your partner can ask your questions and learn from the wisdom and insights of others.

Connection & Growth in Small Groups
Parent community is the "secret sauce" of transformation. Find your people. Nurture real friendships. Leave this course with your own team of supporters, who get it and believe in you.

Optional: 1:1
Coaching
Tips, tricks, and mindset shifts will only get us so far. Working with a low-demand certified, PDA-literate, trauma-informed coach for weekly or bi-weekly private sessions is powerfully transformative for truly changing your family life. Work 1:1 or bring your partner.
You can add this option at check-out after selecting your pricing tier.

BONUS: "Drop the Power Struggles" (Low Demand 101) Mini-Course
Get bonus logins for grandparents, aunts and uncles, caregivers, and important people in your family's life. Let me do the hard work of sharing about low demand, how you are parenting, and how to support you!

BONUS: Screens Without Shame Mini-Course
Rooted in cutting-edge neuroscience, this course is tailored to meet your unique needs as it walks you through the latest research on screens and neurodivergent brains. This course offers you a holistic approach that goes beyond simply limiting screen time and it’s yours FREE with your purchase!
“Amanda’s work helped me to see how I needed to care for MYSELF. That I’m not broken, lazy, or incompetent — just different.
If I could write a thousand testimonials for her, I would.”
— Lindsay B.
Here’s Everything That’s Included!
The revolutionary
Low Demand Parenting Course
Click your preferred payment plan to grab your spot now.
Limited spots available. Save 10% with an up-front payment, or break into 2 payments of $135. If you are interested in our accommodating sliding scale pricing, it is just below.
Single Payment - $247
Save 10%. For NDIS, we can provide a customized receipt in AUD.
Multi-Payment - $135
2 monthly payments
If you need a discounted spot,
We are so honored to make that happen.
When we share what we have, we all have enough.
$247 or $135/month
Sponsorship Tier
Offer what you have to others in our community who have less right now.
Join for $135/monthPlease choose the tier that best reflects your financial reality.
Also, please email us if these tiers are still out of reach.

My Low Demand Promise To You:
I want you to have full confidence in the tools of Low Demand.
I want you to finally have a clear and realistic plan for dropping demands.
I want to help you and your kids to prevent burnout and live with more joy.
I want you to feel connected and affirmed within a community of other parents who are changing their lives by dropping demands, one day at a time
If within 14 days you don't feel you are receiving the tools you need to take your Low Demand journey to the next level — you deserve your money back. No questions asked!
Just email me within 14 days of your purchase, and I’ll give you a full refund. I promise.
WHAT OTHERS
HAVE EXPERIENCED
“Tears are literally streaming down my face. This life is so hard.
I wanted to tell you that your course is literally a balm to my soul.
Your understanding of the needs of our kids AND our needs is so comforting. It is so easy to forget that we, as the parent, have needs too. I love the way you give us permission to not have to be super parent every minute of every day. I also love how you explain that by taking care of ourselves we really are taking care of our kids. Many people give the 'air mask on the plane' scenario, but you really make it real.”
- Stephanie, mom of two, from a note shared with me on week 2 of the course
Let’s make sure you and your family are in a truly foundation-building moment.
This course is for you if:
- You're a parent who wants to be more confident in your parenting decisions.
- You've tried some low demand techniques, but worry if you’re doing it right, OR you're an experienced low demand parent, looking to deepen your journey.
- You're eager to learn and create a loving environment for your kids.
- You want support from other families who get it, without judgment.
This course is not for you YET, if:
- Your ultimate goal is to “fix” your child's behavior.
- You need immediate safety planning.
- You are in the midst of, or are just leaving, an acute crisis moment.
- You can’t commit to a long course or meetings yet.

The Specifics
DATES: September 12-October 17
LIVE CALLS: 4 weekly calls
Tuesdays, 3pm US EDT (GMT-4)
8pm London (BST)
5am Sydney (AEST)
(if you cannot make it live, there will be an opportunity to submit questions and view the recording).
COURSE LENGTH & ACCESS:
The live component of this course lasts for one month, but course members will have one FULL YEAR to watch and rewatch course materials.
Also, just to make this deal even better, you can join any future cohorts during the next year for FREE. So when I run it again in a few months, all of you will get to join in again, totally free. You can take it as many times as I offer it in the next year, no additional charge.
TECHNOLOGY & ACCESSIBILITY: Course curriculum is designed to be as accessible as possible. We have options for video (with closed captions and speed controls), audio podcast, lesson summaries, and detailed transcripts. Information can be accessed through a web portal and a convenient phone app.
NDIS/GRANTS: Invoices for NDIS funding for Australian participants is available! We can also provide additional documentation for autism funding in Canada. If you have access to private, governmental, or grant funds, and I can help submit a letter or documents, please let me know! I am happy to help. Email the team at [email protected] with more details about the documentation you need.
But maybe you're still wondering...
FAQS
I struggle with courses. How much time is required?
Do I need to have all the modules finished each week? What happens if I can't make one of the LIVE Q&A sessions?
What's the deal with the 2 logins?
I’ve read so many parenting books. What makes this different?
Can’t I just try to piece a plan together from reading your book or watching your IG? Why should I join Low Demand Masterclass now?
I feel like we have the type of situation that no one else has. What if my child is too far gone or I'm too burnt out to learn anything?
Is this only for parents of neurodivergent or PDA kids? We don't have a diagnosis, and so I don't know if we even need low demand.
I saw you were formerly a pastor. Are there religious materials in the program?
Is my family welcome here? Are you Queer affirming?
“Amanda is so authentic in all that she brings to the course. She is extremely knowledgeable and is a great model for using the skills she’s teaching.
She is able to hold the community with kindness and grace so that parents/caregivers feel seen, validated, and held in this journey."
-Kelly, parent of 2 in England
Dear one, I know you know what it feels like to spin your wheels — like the whole car might go off the rails any day.

It can be a big ask to trust something new. Here’s what other parents who’ve put their trust in The Low Demand Parenting Method have said about working with me…
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“Our turning point is not when we hit rock bottom.
It’s when we stop suffering in silence.”
Amanda Diekman, The Low Demand Parenting Method
Join today!
Single Payment - $247
Save 10%. For NDIS, we can provide a customized receipt in AUD.
Multi-Payment - $135
2 monthly payments